8 Often Missed Signs of Autism in Toddlers: What Parents Need to Know
As a developmental coach working with families who have transitioned out of Early Intervention services, I’ve noticed that many parents wish they had recognized certain signs of autism earlier. While every child develops differently, understanding these subtle signs can help you advocate for your child’s needs sooner rather than later.
Why Early Recognition Matters
Before we dive into the signs, it’s important to understand that early intervention can make a significant difference in your child’s development. Research shows that the earlier we identify developmental differences, the more effective intervention strategies can be.
8 Subtle Signs of Autism That Parents Often Miss
1. Limited Eye Contact
While many people associate autism with a complete lack of eye contact, the reality is often more subtle. Your child might:
- Make brief eye contact but not maintain it
- Look near your eyes rather than directly at them
- Avoid eye contact during activities they usually enjoy
2. Not Responding to Their Name
This isn’t just about selective hearing. Watch for:
- Consistently delayed responses to their name
- Responding better to other sounds than their name
- Needing multiple attempts to get their attention
3. Repetitive Behaviors or Intense Focus
Look for:
- Lining up toys repeatedly
- Becoming upset when patterns are disrupted
- Strong attachment to specific objects
- Difficulty transitioning between activities
4. Speech Patterns
Beyond delayed speech, notice:
- Echoing words or phrases (echolalia)
- Using memorized scripts from TV shows
- Unusual tone or rhythm when speaking
- Limited babbling or vocal play as a baby
5. Social Interaction Differences
Watch for:
- Preference for parallel play
- Difficulty joining group activities
- Limited showing or sharing of interests
- Challenges with turn-taking
6. Picky Eating Patterns
Many parents don’t realize that selective eating can be a sign. Look for:
- Strong preferences for foods of certain colors
- Sensitivity to food textures
- Limited food variety
- Extreme reactions to new foods
- Difficulty transitioning to new foods
7. Sensory Processing Differences
Pay attention to:
- Over or under-reaction to sounds
- Sensitivity to clothing textures
- Unusual responses to lights or movements
- Seeking or avoiding certain sensory experiences
- Strong reactions to environmental changes
8. Different Sleep Patterns
Sleep differences might include:
- Difficulty establishing sleep routines
- Unusual sleep/wake patterns
- Resistance to typical bedtime routines
- Need for specific sleep conditions
- Frequent night waking
What To Do If You Notice These Signs
First Steps
- Document your observations
- Track when and how often you notice these behaviors
- Note any patterns or triggers
- Share your concerns with your child’s pediatrician
Don’t Wait to Seek Support
While waiting for your next pediatrician appointment, you can:
- Join parent support groups
- Research early intervention services
- Book a free consultation with a developmental coach
The Importance of Professional Guidance
Remember, these signs don’t automatically indicate autism. However, they’re worth discussing with professionals who can provide proper evaluation and guidance.
Your Next Steps
If you’re noticing any of these signs and feeling concerned, don’t wait. I offer free 60-minute consultations where you can:
- Share your concerns in a judgment-free space
- Ask questions about your child’s development
- Learn about available support options
- Get guidance on next steps
Book Your Free Consultation
Click the booking link below to schedule your free 60-minute consultation. Together, we’ll discuss your concerns and create a plan to support your child’s development.
Remember
Trust your parental instincts. You know your child best, and your concerns are valid. Early support can make a significant difference in your child’s development journey.
Disclaimer: This information is for educational purposes only and should not be used as a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with healthcare providers regarding concerns about your child’s development.
